I secretly feel like I’m living a double life and doing what I caught my husband doing. I am in the process of getting a divorce. I was married for five years and we were together for ten. I caught my husband with another guy two and half years ago. I stayed around for the kids. A couple of months ago I found someone, but they are married. He keeps telling me that he’s leaving her for me. I feel guilty for being in this relationship, but at the same time, I really wonder if he is stringing me along here. He’s a great guy, really sweet, and caring. But deep down I don’t think he is ready to move on. He is much older with kids, and I’m much younger and I have two kids. Am I being selfish for wanting him to want me?
image- Lila Quander