Last week my ex-husband told my 19 and 12-year-old kids that he was dying of kidney failure and can’t afford medical treatment because of the $200 a month child support he has to pay. Then I find out today that my ex gave my 12-year-old money for her report card, and told her not to tell me because I will take it and go to the bar and drink it away. I don’t even f*&king drink. Now my 19-year-old hates me because he thinks I am killing his precious daddy who is a worthless piece of sh+t. The ex and his girlfriend make more money than I do a month, and they think I should stop child support so they can get on their feet. But yet I am expected to take care of kids with little to no money so he can get on his feet.