We Have An Open Relationship, And He Got Another Partner Pregnant

We have been in this “open relationship” for five years.  Things had been great, then you had to go get another partner pregnant, move in with her, and expect everything to be the same.  Ugh.  You have a family, and now this woman looks at me like I am the devil.  She is insecure and wants all of you.  She does not want to be open.  She does not want me involved with your family and I can’t blame her.  As much as I love you, I can’t be apart of this any longer.  I have to let go and give you the chance to be a family.  If it doesn’t work out, I will be here for you. But until then, I cannot be strife in your relationship with that woman.  You tell me she is OK with me, with us, but her actions and body language say something completely different.  At this point I feel like I am the outsider, the home wrecker, and like I don’t belong.  It hurts like hell to do this, but I feel it’s the right thing to do.

image- Kris Krug