My friends just announced that they are getting married. I want to be happy for them, but I am just not. First of all, they got together because their relationship started with one of them cheating on their spouse. Secondly, I really don’t think that this is a good idea. He has a lot of emotional problems that I just can’t even put into words. He is pretty much an adult child. They are currently living in his parent’s basement. She wants me to be super involved in the wedding, and I’m just like, urgh…. I don’t even want to be included. I’d rather not even go to the wedding to be honest. I want to ask her what the hell she is thinking. I know I shouldn’t judge, because if they are happy then that’s cool, but I feel like they are making a huge mistake. I will keep my mouth shut and smile through it, but it is beyond killing me.